About the blog:

This blog is about my life as a young, handicapped man in Norway. These are my thoughts, my fears, memories and joys. I hope this blog can be of interest to those out there With Duchenne's Muscular Dystrophy, their friends, families or those of you who are just curious! I'm happy to share my story and my musings of life with you.

onsdag 19. november 2014

The Journey has Come to an End


Our beloved son, brother and best friend left us this night.

A brave journey has come to an end. A journey that lasted exactly for 25 years, 4 months and 15 days. A journey of a huge heart in a weak and small body. A journey of a brilliant mind in a far to weak shell.

As Mats shared with us all in this blog he was born with some challenges very few could imagine. He was however never bitter, angry or expressed any sort of unfairness. Quite the contrary Mats was the one filling us and his sourandings with sunshine, positive thoughts and optimism. During his more than 25 years amongst us he never had one negative or bad thing to express about another human being or living creature.

For those of us who was fortunate enough to learn to know Mats we share a commen experience - we got to spend time with a great little man. Mats enriched us in teaching us to be able to differ between the important and the not so important things in life. Mats was the true advocate of smiling to the world in order to get a smile back and Mats thought us the power of positive thinking. In Mats we experienced something as rare as a true wise man. They are few, but you recognise them when you meet them. Mats was such a person.

At 23:45 on November 18th the journey of the bravest amongst us came to an end. Now we will start walking the path of sorrow. We have experienced the feeling when parents leave us, but now we will experience something nobody should have to experience - the loss of a child and a brother. This will be a different path to follow. The only conviction we have is that Mats is the one person for whom it is worth going down this rocky path.

Today is a day for sorrow and sadness. But one day soon will also be the day to celebrate a fantastic personality, a strong will to live and a substantial and sustainable influence on his sourandings.

We have loved you so much, we will continue to love you and even if your own journey came to an end this night you will always participate in our joint journey together.

You will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.




The family can be contacted on mail: Robert@schibsted.no.



Mia, Trude and Robert.








101 kommentarer:

  1. I got to know Mats, or Ibelin as I knew him as through the Warcraft guild Starlight, he knew me as Nomine and for seven years we shared laughs, adventure, ups and downs.

    It matters a lot that, to be somebody who is there for others. He was there for me, for the guild and many more.
    The loss of somebody like that, a good and strong person will be keenly felt by all who knew him.

    When we gathered in Denmark in 2013, he could not join us in the Flesh, but as always he did not let that stop him from taking part of the fun, this time through video chat:
    https://www.flickr.com/photos/nomine69/9666973944/in/set-72157627156427372
    https://www.dropbox.com/s/2leimccyacl7w ... K.AVI?dl=0

    That was the sort of person he was, not one to let challenges hold him back. He looked for the possibilities in life, not what could hold him back.

    We are remembering him on our forum. http://starlight.forumatic.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=107&p=583#p583

    On behalf of Starlight, I offer our most sincere condolences, our thoughts are with you - his family.

    Nomine/Kai Simon

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  2. Correct video link. https://www.dropbox.com/s/2leimccyacl7wlg/With%20Ibelin%20DK.AVI?dl=0

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  3. I too knew Mats from Starlight. Our characters went on adventures together and explored a world in which so much more was possible than real life would offer him.
    We bantered and bickered, laughed and shouted at each other in character while behind the scenes Mats would make sure people were in fact still feeling alright.
    He talked about his illness, never in such a way that people might feel sorry for him. The eternal optimist, he grabbed all that he could from the game that we all enjoyed.

    I never got to meet him.
    Not for real.
    And yet I find myself flabbergasted, shocked and in tears.
    Yes, he made a lasting impression on me, ever the social being and enthusiastic adventurer.

    I cannot even begin to imagine the gaping hole it must leave for you, his family.

    You already know that he was valued and loved.
    Know that in this virtual world he stood strong and made a difference to many people; that he made us laugh.
    I can only hope we returned the favour.

    I knew him as a Starlighter.
    Now he has gone into that light.
    I hope he'll shine up there.
    Because to many of us, he IS a star.

    Sincerest condolences from the Netherlands.

    Sanneke/Syra

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  4. I knew Ibelin, though admittedly, not well. I first got to know him during my brief time in Starlight, then, I ran into him in other games, such as Guild Wars 2. He was a good man, always friendly, with never a bad word about you or anyone else, and a great roleplayer.

    That he fought so long against his disabilities and made so many good friends amongst Starlight is a testament to his good nature, and will serve as his enduring legacy in the years to come, for as long as his memory is kept in the hearts of those who knew him, it will never fade.

    Farewell, old rogue, see you in the shadows.

    Sincerest condolences from England,
    Nastranai/Revakara, formerly of Starlight.

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  5. I came to read Ibelins blog after I did read about him at one of facebooks ' finnish World of Warcraft" group.

    I have no words. His blog and written story about him and his guild Starlight made me cry. I felt sametime happines and sadness.

    All I can say as ex World of Warcraft player that it has helped me also go through tough times and some of my guildies became my good friends in real life too.

    Rest in peace Ibelin/Mats. Wish everything good for his family and friends!

    With great compassion from Finland, Janna.

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  6. This amazing history has come to Brazil in official site oficial BBC. This os simple amazing. God bless your family! Mats never Will be forgot

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  7. 我在台灣的巴哈姆特上看到有關您兒子的相關事蹟,很高興他曾經在遊戲世界中有過精彩的人生,祝福他在另個世界可以過得好,也祝福你們。
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  10. Dear Mats

    Your word encouraged people around the world even after the end of your own journey. Thank you very much and may god bless your family.

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  11. Deus abençoe a todos e obrigada Deus por enviar pessoas fortes assim para nos ensinar esses exemplos de superação, amor e entusiasmo pela vida, mesmo com dificuldades.

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  13. As lembranças de um guerreiro já é esquecida. Conheci no 16min da BBC.

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  14. So, I found out about you on BBC. Your story is fantastic. I hope you have found a new shell to be in and blossom with this bright soul from inside out. Thank you for sharing your words, Mats.

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  15. Mesmo depois de tanto tempo, me atinge no coração sua história. Um exemplo de pessoa a ser seguido.

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  29. We will continue to explore these lands you loved so much. Your footsteps have marked the paths, and your spirit will remain present in Stormwind. You will forever be a part of this game story, an immortal brother-in-arms.❤️

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  32. Jag kände aldrig Mats men jag håller på att kolla igenom hans dokumentär på Netflix. Jag har själv spelat World of Warcraft sedan 2005 så jag vet hur det är att leva ett liv i den digitala världen. Det är synd att vi aldrig träffades in-game Mats. Men någon solig dag så kanske vi möts där uppe i himmeln och kan spela lite tillsammans. Varma hälsningar till både Mats och familjen från ert brödraland i öst.

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  33. Precis sett dokumentären om dig på Netflix. Den berörde mig verkligen och jag vill bara säga tack för det du gjorde för communityt. Hoppas du får röra dig fritt där uppe!

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  34. Your journey, like millions of others who played wow was amazing! No one quite knows the final boss was always saying good bye to the friends you met along the way

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  35. The story of Mats' life touched me deeply emotionally.
    Thank you for sharing your life, love and experiences with Mats.
    I wish I had gotten to know Mats.

    Even though Mats' story ended almost a decade ago, he will live on in the hearts and minds of many people.

    Rest in Peace.

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  36. Denne kommentaren har blitt fjernet av forfatteren.

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  37. As a disabled human I have never cried as much or harder (literal drops falling) watching the Ibelin film. Felt incredibly seen and understood. The film found a way to capture the emotions I felt along my journey from able bodied to disabled. Ibelin reminded me of a friend I met along the way who was also in a chair and also died young. She also had more of an impact than she realized. :)

    The silver lining of covid was that no one could see me from the waist down on zoom calls and I was less judged by my outward appearance and more by the content of my character and ideas, a pleasant change of pace. (Have reflexive sympathetic dystrophy and have to wear shorts and flip flops regardless of how formal or informal the personal or professional space is.) Thank you, Ibelin and thank you for supporting the making of this film, had a profound and moving impact on me. ♥️

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  38. As somebody who had never heard of Ibelin before and recently watched the documentary about him, he was truly a great guy.
    He's somebody that I want to be, a person who makes a difference in other people's lives for the better. It's really sad that his opportunities slowly vanished as he got closer to the fact that he was going to die prematurely. But we all know he's in a much better place now, free from his terrible disability and illness.
    Mats "Ibelin" Steen shall never be forgotten and will remain in our hearts.

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  39. I just got done watching the movie on Netflix about Ibelin aka Mats. While I didn't know him, I too play WoW, and have for about 12 years now, granted we are on different sides (FOR THE HORDE!!!), I'm glad to have heard his story. The game means alot to me, it's one way I remember a great love of mine, who was also taken too soon (R.I.P. Widowkeeper). TBA you for sharing your story Ibelin!.

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  40. What a beautiful documentary! Ibelin is a true example of empathy and love for others. His story is very inspiring. Thanks to those who made this moving and human project possible.
    Warm regards from Ecuador.

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  41. 💓 Wow... My wife and I just watched this documentary on NF. I have goosebumps all over myself and we are crying alot here.

    This documentary goes straight to my heart. 💓 I was born 1 July 1989. Mats was born 3 July 1989. In a different life we would definitely been best friends. He was so strong. A true warrior of life. He will never be forgotten.

    Rest in peace, ❤️

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  42. Watched the documentairy today and despite they say "grown man dont cry" i certainly spilled some tears, never knew him but wished i did.
    Immediatly searched for the memorial in wow and payed my respects there in game and will do so periodicly, also i see regulair visits in game by other players at the memorial that warms me.
    I know it has been a while but my respect and condolences to the family, he will never be forgotten!

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  43. Har precis sett dokumentären "Ibelins ensatående liv"! Vilken fantastisk dokumentär ❤️ Otroligt sorglig, men samtidigt så vacker!
    Vila i frid Mats, Ibelin ❤️

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  44. Denne kommentaren har blitt fjernet av forfatteren.

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  45. Essa história incrível chegou aqui no Brasil, no Rio de Janeiro, através do documentário exibido pela Netflix.

    Um filme triste, acho que ninguém deveria passar por isso. Não poder correr, não poder comer o que quer na hora que quer, não poder fazer coisas simples sozinho... Mas essas coisas jamais o limitou. Ibelin foi incrível, fez coisas incríveis e ajudou muitas pessoas... Adoraria te-lo conhecido.
    Jogo WoW desde 2013 e já vivenciei muitas situações que externam os limites do jogo... Essa história nos faz refletir um monte de coisas...

    Inclusive pra quem ainda tem muitos preconceitos com jogos de videogame/computador... Assistam, vão ver o outro lado de uma história e talvez, mudem de opinião...
    Vale a pena assistir/conhecer... Mas preparem as emoções...

    Ibelin, jamais será esquecido!
    World of Warcraft é mais que um jogo e sempre será!

    For The Azeroth!

    Ass: Nefertiry

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  46. Dear Mia, Trude and Robert.

    I would first like to thank you for sharing this fantastic, emotional and impactful story of Matt's life, thank you for sharing his story, thank you to Blizzard and Netflix for contributing to the realization of this beautiful project.

    I'm 40 years old, born in 1983, I started playing MMORPG in 1996 with Ultima Online, video games have always been present in my life since 1994, I've always played RPG too, I was very touched by his story, and Matt is a person with a spirit enlightened, even though I do know him only now, one of the best people I didn't have the opportunity or pleasure of meeting, but I'm grateful for sharing his existence and story, it really touched me, I'm a senior software engineer in career transition to game development, I will never see the game developer profession in the same way again.

    His story has a profound impact, there is life before knowing his story and after knowing it.

    Affectionate hug to everyone,

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  47. I've been in Azeroth for almost 20 years, and recently stepped away due to the paths of adult life. Mats' story moved me deeply; it's even a bit hard to express myself.

    Inspiring stories can also be devastating; Making me feel like sometimes destruction feels necessary so that we can build better things.

    We all have some unfulfilled dreams, a few regrets, and some pain. The tears shed upon learning Mats' story helped me remember how much I've lived and how much I still have left to live.

    As for my time in Azeroth, I wish I could tell the friends I made there that I'm sorry for the times I hurt them, that I'm proud of the good things we accomplished together, that I miss the Guild I helped found and eventually led for a few years, that I miss all the hours we spent together. And even though life has moved on, I've learned a lot from everything we experienced.

    Likewise, it’s clear how much Ibelin touched people throughout his journey. He continues to touch us, in fact. Proof that a good heart is bigger than the body that carries it across the world. Bigger than the physical and digital worlds. I hope this text reaches others who want to make the world a better place and carry in their hearts the desire to make their worlds better places.

    Wherever he may be, Ibelin left us a lesson that will ensure he is always remembered.

    Ishnu-dal-dieb, Ibelin. Lehur from Brazil.

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  48. I tuned in tonight to see The Remarkable Life of Ibelin. Superbly done. His story brought me to tears, so many tears. Thank you for sharing your hearts and his story with the world.

    A gamer mom, Alabama, US

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  49. The documentary brought tears to my eyes tonight. I just visited his in game memorial to light a candle for him. Thank you for sharing his story with us.

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  50. Last night, I, too, watched the documentary on Netflix. What an impressive documentary about Mats and his life as 'Ibelin.' It moved me to see how his story brings more attention to the people behind the characters in games. It’s remarkable that, through his online presence, he was able to find meaning for himself and be meaningful to others. I was also touched by how his family participated in this project, allowing such an intimate look into Mats's life. The openness of some of his online friends made this story even more powerful. The documentary reminds us that behind every online character, in any form, there is a real person. That games and social media can also help people with disabilities to express themselves freely, without an initial judgment. That search for respect and understanding ultimately connects us all.

    Manolito - Netherlands

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  51. I watched the film that reflected your life, my dear friend. I may not have known you at all, but I felt close to you. Your family's support for you and your upright stance against difficulties and your sincere answers touched me a lot. I'm sure many people will follow the traces you left behind...

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  52. I just watched the documentary on Netflix and I am very moved by Mats' story, his son was incredible.

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  53. Thank you for your efforts in sharing the incredible life of Mats. It's so inspiring. I bawled my eyes out seeing the documentary.

    My sincere condolences,

    Pedro Henrique from Brazil, AKA Mahdú - Azralon

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  54. 2024 after watching it onNetflix. Thank you for sharing.

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  55. Watching Mats Ibelin's documentary last evening has led me here to say thank you Mats & family for sharing a beautiful heart wrenching story. As many others, the tears flow from a very raw emotion of love, compassion and gratitude that reflected who Mats was in his lifetime. I am not a gamer but I will never see online gaming the same again. Thank you Mats for your existence did touch many far beyond Azeroth. From Singapore with 🤍

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  56. Thank you for having the courage to share this story with everyone and for the son you raised. The documentary moved me in ways I can not properly describe.

    It is rare to find people so empathetic, kind and authentic in real life. But it is extremely rare to find someone like this online. You must be proud of what he accomplished in such a short time, in a place that people tend to use to mask their feelings and be more mean, not kinder.

    As a famous quote in Blade Runner says: "The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long, and you have burned so very very brightly".

    May he live forever in the memory of his family and friends and in the legends of Azeroth.

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  57. Here to pay my respects. I wish someone could go through and clean up all these spam posts from bots that have littered this beautiful, amazing blog over the years.

    I never knew Mats personally, but in a way I feel many of us knew our own "Mats" through many of our countless faceless friends we've met online, especially us social outcasts who grew up in 90s and early 00s to see online gaming boom the way it did. We were all Mats in a way, and I think that's why the documentary and this very blog resonates so powerfully with such a large audience of people our age.

    Gaming now is less intimate. It's less social. Even WoW is guilty of this. Gaming companies focus more on retention and loot crates and increasing their bottom line, and it's very rare now to find a community of players you can build real relationships with now. This is okay for many of us who are now in our mid to late thirties, with our own families and careers not leaving any time for our online adventures, but I feel bad for the younger generation now where gaming is simply joining parties of nameless CPU-like players who kill the boss and then never see one another again. That closeness we had of knowing people in our servers as if we were living there, like Ibelin did, doens't really exist anymore. And it's a bit sad. Those many, many hours I've spent online with faceless friends who (thanks to social media) became real life friends will always be very, very precious to me.

    I wanted to thank Mats for living such a beautiful life, and the makers of The Remarkable Life of Ibelin for capturing the authenticity in something that many of us shared with Mats.

    See you in the next life, brother. For Azeroth.

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  58. Assisti o documentário da Netflix, aqui no Brasil, é uma história triste mas é uma lição de vida, Ibelin jamais será esquecido dentro e fora do Warcraft. R.I.P

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  59. saludos al cielo mats!! abrazos desde Argentina!!

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  60. Hello my name is Martin Uhl. I saw the documentary about your son. I find your son impressive and a role model for many out there. I was very touched by his story. I really hope that my children can see this documentary one day. Your son is an angel

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  61. I watched the documentary on Netflix, a truly amazing person with a impact on the world he will never know.
    It brouhgt me tears. Greetings from Belgium.

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  62. Denne kommentaren har blitt fjernet av forfatteren.

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  63. Netflix brought me here. We have a sick daughter, 15 months old. So I simply had to watch the story of your wonderful son. Thank you for sharing this with us.

    Cried my eyes out. Yet it gave me so much strength and joy. Thank you from my heart.

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  64. I dag så jeg en dokumentar om sønnen din, takk for at du delte denne historien. Jeg kondolerer tapet ditt. Wkrae fra Tsjekkia.

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  65. i watched the documentary...wow, i cried here and there but for the last 10 or 20 minutes straight...thank you for being who you were and hopefully still are wherever you are matts ibelin. this was incredibly moving. thanks to everybody for sharing this story. this makes the world a little bit better. thank you.

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  66. I've watched the documentary this weekend with my kids and we were deeply touched by Mats' story. Thank you so much for sharing with all of us his life and legacy. I really believe that Mats would be amazed by the way all the storytelling was beautifully put together.

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  67. What a beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing. Mats would have proud how his story was told so well and will continue to impact even more people's lives.

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  68. I've just watched the documentary 'the remarkable life of Ibelin', and laughed and cried while watching it. What a beautiful story about a truly remarkable person! I never knew that people can become such good friends and find so much comfort through a computer game, but I think it's amaizing. Thank you Mia, Trude and Robert for sharing a part of Mats' life with the world. ❤️

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  69. Descansa en paz querido ibelin siempre estarás en nuestros corazones, desde Paraguay Fernando T.

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  70. Repose en paix, cher Mats. Je ne te connaissais pas personnellement, mais je viens de te découvrir sur Netflix. Tu es quelqu’un de profondément touchant, et le documentaire m’a beaucoup ému. À l’époque, je jouais aussi énormément à WoW, comme toi, et je me retrouve dans cette passion et cette émotion que tu transmettais. Plein de respect et de pensées pour toi, Mats. RIP.

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  71. Dear Mats,
    Thank you for the truly inspiring life you lead. Countless hours in game taught me that relationships are relationships full stop —whether they are online or in real life, they are just as true. The altruism you showed throughout your life had a massive impact on people's life: your friends, your family, and now some strangers who watched your story through a documentary.
    Rest in peace Ibelin.
    Sincerely,
    Julien

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  72. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ noting else to say

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  73. Rest in Power, Lord Ibelin. That was a documentary that made a grown man like me felt like tearing up.

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  74. Watched the documentary today. I've read Mats' story before, it was on newspapers here in Finland too. The story touched me back then, because I was a wow player myself and today the game has been a part of my life for 20 years. It's a world to escape to, even when there's nothing to escape from. The documentary touched me even more, because it told a more deep story of Mats. Thank you for sharing his story, made me cry.

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  75. Dear family of Mats,
    Thank you for sharing your story, it was moving in many ways.

    I don't read it hear, but I am just as much impressed by the family and people around Mats, as you too seem to have been able to think in possibilities. He had made a good choice choosing you as parents.

    What I take out of the story most is that it is never the surroundings that make or break your state of mind. I also know this because of my niece: always struggling with severe health issues, but (almost) always cheerful and possitive. Such luck that Mats was a living example of this insight. Not complaining is a choice and a strong one. The surroundings don't force you into negativity.

    I am also impressed by the explanation of the gameworld. I have never understood the appeal to this escape, untill this documentary. I like the interaction between the game characters in the game world and their creators in the real world through chat, video and even meetings.

    I think it was very strong of the family to understand these friendships so soon after Mats' death and it is touching that they invited these online friends at his funeral.

    The thing was touched me most was the silence that Mats had kept for so many years. That part made me really sad and luckily he did open up at the end. But oh, what would it have been nice had he dared to show up at the Denmark-meeting, or meeting Kai in Oslo... I am absolutely sure that the guild would have excepted him complete with wheelchair and difficulties and all. So sorry he felt he had to keep hidden.

    Thank you all for sharing and regards from the Netherlands.


    PS please let someone clean up the clutter in the responses..! The blog is important, but too difficult to read this way.

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  76. Querida familia Steen,

    Reciban mis más profundas condolencias por la partida de Mats. Sabemos que su vida fue un ejemplo de valentía, resiliencia y amor, y que, a través del mundo de los videojuegos, Mats tocó los corazones de muchas personas en maneras únicas y profundas.

    Su espíritu y calidez fueron tan fuertes que trascendieron la distancia y las barreras físicas, creando lazos verdaderos y amistades duraderas en quienes compartieron momentos con él. En World of Warcraft, Mats encontró una comunidad que lo valoraba por quien era, y su legado de bondad y fortaleza será recordado siempre por todos aquellos que lo conocieron y admiraron.

    Esperamos que encuentren consuelo en el cariño y en los recuerdos compartidos con quienes lo amaron y respetaron, tanto en el mundo real como en el virtual. Su vida fue, sin duda, una inspiración para todos.

    Con respeto y cariño, Alberto Moreno, Monterrey, Nuevo León, México

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  77. Heartwarming story. RIP Ibelin 🕊️

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  78. Ibelin. I was a mentor at the Stormwind Acadmey guild on SWC. (Yana, Janna, Raychel (paladin)). We used to have joined raids with Starlight.I've raided with you a couple of times. So many other names I have recognized...
    I am Russian. Now living in Sweden. You are a forever a living ode of the greatest beauty of this game: the connections that we create. The feelings, the secretes, the emotions that we share. The way we go through them together, the way we have the ease of talking about them BECAUSE of the game, BECAUSE it is just so much easier sometimes to talk to a "stranger" that is so magically transforms into a friend that very moment you share your most inner feelings. Like you, I had my share of trying to help people. Like you, I had my small victories where I would mostly unite people with themselves. I love and remember each and one of them still...
    Thank you Ibelin and all of you that contributed to the movie. However little words I can muster, this I can say: this was the deepest, the most truest and the most raw and the most genuine work of art I have seen in a long long time.
    Fly high.
    Run free.
    Dear Ibelin.
    /Yana,Janna, Raychel from Stromwind Academy on Steamwheedle Cartel.

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  79. Happen to watch this video in netflix. Few people understand what you had gone through , but watching you, as a father, I might start understanding my teenage sons more. You definitely help loads of people. We all share our love to you and the one in need..

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  80. So awesome to find the blog and see all the amazing comments after watching the documentary. Ibelin's words and impact will live forever thanks to the people he befriended and your family's choice to tell his story. Thank you for all of it.

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  81. Hello from Spain. Here a 37 years old WoW player (since begining). Ibelin was a hero!

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  82. Здравствуйте дорогие Труд, Роберт и Мия. Примите мои искренние пусть и сильно запоздалые соболезнования.
    Прощу прощения, что пишу на родном языке – мой английский не настолько хорош.
    Меня, как и многих других, тронула невероятно грустная и невероятно красивая история о жизни Мэтса-Ибелина. Я рыдал как малое дитя сидя перед монитором. Но перед просмотром пришлось потрудиться, чтобы искуственный интеллект помог мне при просмотре видео выводя субтитры – так я не упустил почти ничего.
    В голове крутятся мысли о том времени, в которое Мэтс родился. Чуть раньше и жизнь была бы другой. Чуть позже и может быть все было бы как в моей любимой книге «Играть чтобы жить», которую написал Дмитрий Рус. Не знаю переведена ли серия книг на другие языки. Эта серия книг – икона нового жанра для литературы литрпг. Книги про онлайн игры в недалеком будущем с возможностью полного погружения в игру используя капсулы полного погружения где социальная составляющая – любовь, дружба, вражда – на первом месте.
    Это было около недели назад. Меня переполняют куча эмоций. Благодарность многим людям в их числе. Вера в людей тоже. Вера в людей и насколько мы разные сразу бросается в глаза даже здесь – в этом блоге. Раздражают бездушные псевдо коммерческие комментарии сомнительного содержания. И в это же самое время поражают комментарии тех кто пришел сюда выразить свои благодарность и почтение вам и Мэтсу.
    Меня поразило пару моментов. Не знаю правильно ли лезть сюда со своими впечатлениями и чувствами. Но это блог Мэтса – так что поделюсь.




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  83. Я очень давно играю в WOW. Иногда забрасываю, но всегда возвращаюсь. Я из России и силу политической ситуации Близзард закрыла возможность легально играть в нашей стране. С выходом нового дополнения игры я из-за невозможности играть опять ненадолго забросил игру. Но неделю назад, после просмотра фильма возникло просто непреодолимое желание-порыв добраться до небольшого островка в Элвиннском лесу хотя бы на пару минут – просто постоять там или посидеть. Решение принято, выход найден. Я в игре. Создаю любимый класс персонажа – охотник. И называю его Iiom - Ibelin in our memories. Вход в игру, но я появляюсь далеко от Штормграда, что рядом с Элвиннским лесом куда я рвусь. Приходится проделать стартовую цепочку квестов. Минут 30-40 и вот я В Штормграде. В кармане 7 с небольшим золотых. Трачу еще минуты 3 на важное дело. Пишу случайному игроку высокого уровня с просьбой может ли он подарить мне одну или две большие сумки (каждая стоит около 90 золотых). Купить сам в ближайшее время не в состоянии. Но игрок говорит «Ты где? Подожди минуту.» Потом подходит ко мне и дарит 3 большие сумки и 500 золотых. Благодарю его от всего сердца. Это небольшое отступление про веру в людей)) Дальше путь лежит в Элвиннский лес. Я 10 уровня, нет никакого транспорта – так что бегу на своих двоих как делал Ибелин. 3 минуты и я на месте. И то что я вижу еще больше укрепляет веру в людей, и в WOW коммьюнити в частности. У могилки Ибелина находятся около 6-8 игроков. Это было на сервере Silvermoon. В случайное время на одном из многих серверов WOW нас было около 7 человек кто пришел не сговариваясь отдать дань Ибелину. Через 10 минут Близзард забанили мой новый аккаунт))

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  84. Но играть в WOW все еще хочется. Возвращаюсь на один из старых аккаунтов с так называемым пиратским сервером. Там много испаноговорящих игроков из разных стран: Мексика, Аргентина, Португалия, Парагвай, Испания. Есть игроки англоговорящие и русскоговорящие. Всю неделю по вечерам после работы бегая с разными ребятами по подземельям, для которых нужны 5 человек собранных вместе я спрашивал в каждой новой группе смотрели ли они фильм об Ибелине. И ответы были разными. Около половины говорили, что конечно смотрели. Один парень из Аргентины когда я его спросил об этом молчал около минуты - видимо гуглил) потом написал "Воу, спасибо, я обязательно посмотрю". Как-то стоя в Вальдракене у аукциона увидел аватар с ником с из букв латинского алфавита охотника (тот же класс что и у меня) экипированный лучше меня. Я спросил человека на английском может он мне показать где я могу улучшить экипировку. В ответ получил фразу на английском «I don’t speak English». Я залез в гугл и перевел вопрос на испанский. Человек написал «nope» в ответ. Увидев что в вопросе была ошибка я хотел написать lol но была русская раскладка клавиатуры включена и получилось «дщд». В ответ получил «ДЩД ДЩД))))» и понял, что человек говорит по-русски. Она показала где я могу улучшить мою экипировку и я по обыкновению спросил смотрела ли она фильм об Ибелине. Она сказала, что что-то такое слышала. Я написал, что у этого человека есть могилка в WOW. В ответ получил незамедлительное «Знаешь координаты?». Я написал следовать за мной. Мы оседлали наших драконов и полетели к телепорту в Штормград. В Штормграде выйдя из башни магов опять прыгнули на драконов и спустя несколько секунд мы были на месте. Она простояла молча около минуты и потом написала «Моё уважение». Я ответил, что да Близзарды большие молодцы. Отношение WOW комьюнити к истории Ибелина – это что-то невероятное.

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  85. Еще что меня поразило после просмотра фильма – это Мэтс на семейной видеохронике. В его положении сохранять такой настрой – дорогого стоит. Не знаю выбирал ли Бенджамин Ри такие кадры. Но почти везде Мэтс улыбается. Это потрясает. Даже на последних видео он с улыбкой на лице. Невероятное самообладание и любовь к своей семье. Но в этом не только он, но и Вы, все кто его окружал. Без Вашей поддержки и любви такого эффекта бы не было.Спасибо Вам, семье Мэтса. Не представляю как вам всем было тяжело решиться на все это, но огромное спасибо вам что сделали это. Иногда в голове крутятся разные мысли. Что ели бы вы от переизбытка любви к сыну в попытке продлить его жизнь – запрещали бы играть допоздна, заставляя соблюдать постельный режим как настаивали врачи? Но Вы на каком-то интуитивном уровне так не делали. Спасибо. Ведь «сидение за компьютером по 6-10 часов в день» это бессмысленная трата времени как принято считать… Я знаю людей кто создал семьи, начав общаться в WOW. Социальная составляющая WOW – это значительная часть игры. Спасибо, что именно вы были частью его жизни – его поддержкой.

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    1. Rest in peace, Mats Steen. May you live in God's paradise, where there is no more sadness but only eternal love, peace, and joy. Amen.

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  86. Спасибо Бенджамину и всей команде кто работал над создание фильма. Получилось что-то потрясающее!
    Спасибо Близзардам, что дали делу дальнейший ход, одобрили и запечатлели память об Ибелине в игре. После просмотра фильма начал по другому смотреть на игру.
    Спасибо соклановцам Мэтса из гильдии Старлайт, что приняли участие в проекте. Подарок от Rumour картины Ибелину отправленный почтой – это прекрасное проявление чувства зарожденного в игре.
    Вы все вместе показав миру историю Ибелина – сделали правильное решение. Кто-то находясь в подобной ситуации что и Вы с Мэтсом, увидев фильм – могут поступить лучше, а не как надо. Кто-то начнет относиться к своим детям сидящим за играми по много часов мягче – с большим пониманием.
    Низкий вам всем поклон.
    Еще огромная благодарность многочисленным игрокам WOW. Ваше отношение к Ибелину просто потрясает воображение. Комментарии здесь – отлично отражают всю любовь и силу WOW комьюнити.
    Искренне Ваш
    Iiom – Silvermoon
    Дракольчик - Гордунни

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  87. Rest in peace, Mats Steen. May you live in God's paradise, where there is no more sadness but only eternal love, peace, and joy. Amen.

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  88. Descanza en paz Ibelin, el mejor detective en todo Azeroth.

    Con admiración, desde Colombia.

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  89. The Netflix movie brought me here, 10 years later, without having any idea of the story if Mats. If a 55 years old can still learn some life lessons and be brought to tears, Mats first and his family after have done something incredible.

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  92. Merci beaucoup pour cette histoire magnifique.
    Ibelin j aurai aimé te connaître
    Quel belle preuve humanité
    Toutes mes Condoleances à sa famille.
    Tu reste dans nos cœurs ❤️❤️❤️

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